Words vs Actions

Let me ask you...

What logic is this when A tells you upfront "I don't sayang B" yet on the other hand, A has plans to get something expensive for B's upcoming birthday and asks your opinion on which gift to get for B. Hmmm, funny right?

What is it that A is trying to impose here huhh? What is A trying to say?

Ain't those words and actions contradicting one another? I don't understand. That's why I'm asking...